新的一周

新的开始

昨天晚上没睡好，今天老提不起精神来

想睡觉～～～～

 

I came up with some suggestions on how “single” men and women can spend V-day alone, but not necessarily lonely. If you haven’t got a date for the red-letter day, read on and pick up a thing or two to make it bearable for you.

 

The recently single gal/guy. First and foremost, do not ever call your ex in case you get lonely. Exes belong to the past. Move on.

 

Yes, you must still be hurting and are going through the healing process. But remember this famous line from a song: "Ooh child, things are gonna be easier." In time you are indeed going to be OK. Don’t sulk. V-day can be a day to spend with family. Some married couples do away with the usual fine-dining restaurant date and simply host a nice family dinner at home.

 

You can even make it more creative by suggesting potluck and maybe plan some board games or videoke. During this time, family can offer you the most solid support you will need, so take advantage of it.

 

The still-single guy or gal. Some of you may be getting restless already because it’s been years and you’re still without a partner. Relax. Why don’t you call your other single pals and plan a night out? Have a nice dinner and go to a singles bar afterward. You’ll never know who you might meet. There is always a big chance you will meet someone interesting and single too. V-day is also for people looking for love.

 

The single mom/dad formerly married or not. Take your kid/s out on a date. Why not? You can even plan an all-day activity. Go to the mall, take him to his favorite pizza place, watch a movie or treat him to play-all-you-can with a reasonable budget games at Timezone, or go to a carnival. It could be anything. Time spent with your kids is always worthwhile.

 

For the recently widowed. When my mom was widowed three years ago, her first V-day alone was the most difficult time for her because it was also my dad’s birthday. Since they both loved going to piano bars, my friend suggested we go to an exclusive piano bar too.

 

We gathered our family and close relatives from both sides and booked the piano bar to ourselves, sang our dad and mom’s and our favorite songs, and had such a great V-day celebration. My mom’s voice would crack from time to time when she sang but honoring our father on his birthday by way of a meaningful family for sure made him happy wherever he may be.

 

For the long-time widow. No one can replace a loved one. It is up to the widow or widower to choose to enter into a new relationship or forever remain single. If you meet someone who can make you happy again and you feel you are ready for one, then go for it! But if you decide to remain single for life and just focus your energy and attention on your family and kids, that’s good too.

 

Do as you please. Ultimately, you know what can make you happy. That’s the most important thing.

从大二那年《24》开始播出第一季第一集时

我就一直特别关注24，基本每一集必看

很多时候都来不及等到中文字幕

先自己练一遍听力，然后再看一遍带中文字幕的

一直看到第四季的第24集

已经在演第五季了，不过现在家里没有宽带，不方便下载

等它出完买DVD再看吧

昨天去买PS2，偶然找到一张24的PS游戏光盘

回家试了一下

感觉满好的，值得一玩儿

游戏时间被设定在了第二季和第三季中相隔的3年的某一天

游戏情节是重新创造出来的，这样比较有新鲜感

游戏画面做得也很不错，特别是人物的造型都比较逼真

再配上原配的人声和背景音效

效果很不错

有时间再慢慢玩吧，呵呵～～～

长这么大了，还从来没有去过冰天雪地的地方

满遗憾的，特别想去看看冰雕节是什么样的

前天先去人工的冰场去过了一下瘾

一直以为冰刀应该和直排的旱冰鞋差不过

结果上了冰面以后才知道感觉原来两样的

不过自己毕竟有滑旱冰的经验

还是很快在几次摔倒后适应了，还能倒着滑个十几米

和我们同去的一个MM就可怜了

被摔了不下30次（统计有误，特此声明）

不过我倒满佩服她的

屡次跌倒屡次起来继续

在大家的帮助下也能自己滑几米了，呵呵

很不错的说

 

这两天脚一直都好酸

看来是平时缺乏锻炼了

以后真得多运动运动啊

busy busy busy ...

下周二是情人节

一些朋友问我这个情人节准备怎么过？

去年怎么过，今年还怎么过

呵呵

虽然不知道去年怎么过的

但我现在和去年的状态还是一样——Available

希望明天的这个时候

自己也在好好计划怎么过这个节日了

心很空 天很大 云很重
我恨孤单 却赶不走
捧着她的名字
她的喜怒哀乐
往前走 多久了

一个人心中

只有一个宝贝
久了之后
她变成了眼泪
[泪一滴在左手
凝固成为寂寞
往回看 有什么

那女孩对我说
说我保护她的梦
说这个世界
对她这样的不多

她渐渐忘了我
但是她并不晓得
遍体麟伤的我
一天也没再爱过

那女孩对我说
说我是一个小偷
偷她的回忆
塞进我的脑海中
我不需要自由
只想背着她的梦
一步步向前走
她给的永远 不重

新的一年

为了有好的开始

先梳理好身边的一切吧

新的一年

有很多新的目标等我去实现